In a microwave safe/heat resistant mug, mix the hot chocolate mix and hot water (add mix to your own tastes), and microwave for 1 min 30 sec till warm. Add the White rum (I prefer 10 Cane personally), the Peppermint schnapps, amaretto, and Bailey's Irish Cream (preferably the new Mint version). Stir gently with the Candy Cane/Peppermint candy and add marshmallows and whipped cream if you so desire. Enough of these and you'll be buried under a drift of your own!